You Matter

You Matter

Dr. Z, why are you talking about suicide? Because someone has to. I’ve lost people to suicide including a high school boyfriend, one of my best friends, and a cousin. Yet, no one, those closest to them, said it was suicide. My aunt said her daughter died of alcoholism, which is more acceptable in an…

Men

Men

I am a feminist. Dr. Z, duh, it’s obvious through your writing and posts that you’re all about women’s equal rights and opportunities. But did you know I don’t hate men? Hmmm. I love the men in my life and others who support women’s rights. Listen, there are men and women who don’t believe in…

Disrupt Love

Disrupt Love

Love-schmove. Here we go again, another Valentine’s Day. We can thank capitalism, such as Hallmark, florists, and the restaurant industry for this invented celebration. Whether you are coupled or not, there is a lot of pressure. The two dozen red roses I gave my [fill in the blank] shows how much I love my [fill…